“Career Move Mondays” – School Daze
One of the best pieces of advice my dad has ever given me is that life is too short to hate going to work every day.
Now, I am not so disillusioned to think that I will one day have a career that I will excitedly jump out of bed for at 6:00 am on a cold Monday morning, but I don’t think it’s too much to ask for to like what you do, at least just a little bit.
I went to college for elementary education. I loved college; I loved my classes; I loved student teaching, but when it came to getting my own classroom, the love affair quickly died. At the risk of sounding like a completely horrible monster, I must admit, I am not a huge fan of kids, well large amounts of them in a confined area, anyway.
I know, I know, then why would I ever choose elementary education as a career to pursue? Well, as I found out a few years later sitting at my desk adorned with apple trinkets and papers that needed grading (and completely burned out, I must add), it wasn’t the prospect of working with children that had caused me to want to be a teacher, it was my interest in the curriculum that drew me in.
So, here I am, about to enter my 30’s, back in school for instructional design. I am currently working on an internship at a textbook/software publishing company, and I feel hopeful. In my spare time, I thumb through 7th grade biology and 6th grade grammar textbooks, and I honestly really enjoy it. I am a nerd at heart; a nerd that is not a big fan of large numbers of kids, and I have embraced that. I will still be shaping the leaders of tomorrow; I will just be doing it from behind the scenes. And, I am not a monster.
So, I guess what I am trying to say is that there is no need to be discouraged if your career aspirations are not working out the way you expected them to. At the risk of sounding too cliché, life is a journey, not a destination. Finding a career that completely suits, challenges, and makes you happy is a journey. It takes time.
However, don’t be discouraged if you are never excited about the thought of getting out of bed at 6:00 am on a cold Monday morning. There are some things we must learn to live with.
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